flirting is good for health

If you've been on the receiving end of an accomplished flirt, you'll be aware of how flattering it can be. Dictionaries invariably describe flirting as making "playfully romantic or playfully sexual overtures". That's all well and good but how do you know if you're a good flirter? Fear not. Here is a list of some tips for flirting like a professional in no time!

Get an Attitude. A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic, open and positive. It works!

Start a Conversation. The best opening line is simply saying, 'hello'. Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, make a joke, and state an opinion. Make sure you are calm and composed but just do it before the person you’ve got your eye on walks out of the bar or past you in the street, never to be seen again!

Have Fun. Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.

Use Props. Never leave home without a prop because they are great natural conversation starters.

Be Assertive. Change your behaviour; don't be passive. If you like what you see, go for it!

Go it Alone. If you're with a group of friends, wait until you're alone before you approach someone. That way, if you're rejected, it's not in front of a gang of people.

Listen. Take the time to really listen to what's being said to you; listening is a true art and the person you're flirting with will appreciate it. Everyone loves to be heard.

Look. Make eye contact, but don’t stare – it’s a turn off.

Use Flattery. Compliment the person you're flirting with. The best compliments have an element of surprise about them, something that makes the 'flirtee' realize that you've noticed something telling about them.

Smile. It's contagious. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. Try it!

This post was found in one of my old hard drives. It was probably taken from MSN Health website; I do not have the source.

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